Here is my new address so you can find me:
http://marvelousthingswillhappen.wordpress.com/
It's not a decision I've made lightly. I've been deliberating about it all fall and all winter.
Pros for Blogger:
1- I'm used to it.
2- It's cuter
3-It's where all the crafty people are (unless they break the mold and go with typepad.)
4-Most of my friends and family use Blogger.
5-I love the widget that shows all of your blogs on the side and tells me the title of your most recent post so I know to go read it.
Pros for Wordpress:
When I make a comment on someone's blog, or if they comment on mine, WordPress shows me first thing with a little comment notification. I can immediately reply. If someone replies to a comment I made, WordPress tells me.
With Blogger, I have to either remember to check the box for follow-up emails (I never remember to check the box) or remember to keep checking back to see if anyone replied--don't remember that very often either.
So in the end, I've decided that WordPress allows for more of a conversation. That is what keeps me blogging--to stay connected to my families that are far away
I'll miss my RSS feed widget, but I'm hoping that I can figure out how to do the same thing in WordPress. In the mean time, I can use the Reader
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Thursday, January 10, 2013
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Scripture Cases
For their 8th birthday, we give the kiddie pies their own set of scriptures. I promised Pumpkin Pie a case to carry them in, and about 2 months after her birthday, I finally made it using this fun scripture case tutorial from PolkaDotChair.
I was making cases for a Bible and Triple Combination, soft paper bound, which together are larger than a mini-quad (what Melissa at PolkaDotChair was making a case for). I like my cases to fit pretty closely so the books aren't wallowing around in there. Also because my kids have a tendency to hoard bits of trash and I didn't want much room left for bits of paper. If you want to make your own case for scriptures like ours and don't want to do the math, here are the dimensions I used. (Also in case I decide to make more and want to remember the math.)
Denim:
1-- 9 3/8 x 8 inch for the flap
2-- 6 1/4 x 8 inch for the front & back
1-- 4 3/8 x 20 inch strip for the gusset
2-- 2 1/2 x 16 inch strips for the handle
It took a little bit more than a fat quarter for the lining:
2- 6 1/4 x 8 inch for front & back lining
2- 5 1/4 x 8 inch for front pocket
1- 9 3/8 x 8 inch for the flap lining
1- 4 3/8 x 20 inch strip for the gusset lining
Seam allowance 1/2" everywhere except the handle- do 1/4" seams on the handle.
The first case I made was too tight. The gusset was 1/4 inch too narrow. I ended up unpicking all the seams and resewing them smaller so that there would be more room in the case.
**This is one of the secrets I've learned that has made me happier with my sewing. When it isn't right, I take the time to fix it. It's totally worth it. If you hate unpicking, check your seam ripper. If it is so rusty, it looks like you stabbed someone with it and left the blood to dry, spend $4 on a new one. Totally worth it.
**Secret #2 top stitch. It makes everything look more professional.
I adjusted the measurements for the second case and it turned out perfectly. (The measurements above are the adjusted ones.)
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| I made one for Cherry Pie, too. |
I was making cases for a Bible and Triple Combination, soft paper bound, which together are larger than a mini-quad (what Melissa at PolkaDotChair was making a case for). I like my cases to fit pretty closely so the books aren't wallowing around in there. Also because my kids have a tendency to hoard bits of trash and I didn't want much room left for bits of paper. If you want to make your own case for scriptures like ours and don't want to do the math, here are the dimensions I used. (Also in case I decide to make more and want to remember the math.)
Denim:
1-- 9 3/8 x 8 inch for the flap
2-- 6 1/4 x 8 inch for the front & back
1-- 4 3/8 x 20 inch strip for the gusset
2-- 2 1/2 x 16 inch strips for the handle
It took a little bit more than a fat quarter for the lining:
2- 6 1/4 x 8 inch for front & back lining
2- 5 1/4 x 8 inch for front pocket
1- 9 3/8 x 8 inch for the flap lining
1- 4 3/8 x 20 inch strip for the gusset lining
Seam allowance 1/2" everywhere except the handle- do 1/4" seams on the handle.
The first case I made was too tight. The gusset was 1/4 inch too narrow. I ended up unpicking all the seams and resewing them smaller so that there would be more room in the case.
**This is one of the secrets I've learned that has made me happier with my sewing. When it isn't right, I take the time to fix it. It's totally worth it. If you hate unpicking, check your seam ripper. If it is so rusty, it looks like you stabbed someone with it and left the blood to dry, spend $4 on a new one. Totally worth it.
**Secret #2 top stitch. It makes everything look more professional.
I adjusted the measurements for the second case and it turned out perfectly. (The measurements above are the adjusted ones.)
Saturday, January 5, 2013
On the Menu this Week
I made a schedule. It is the mother of all schedules. It is a plan.
If I follow the plan, all my wildest dreams will come true.
My new year's resolution is to follow the schecule, follow the plan.
Part of the plan is to have biweekly menu plans and only shop twice a month for groceries. This will save me time for sure and probably money, as well.
Here is this coming week's plan:
You'll notice that Sunday-Friday breakfasts are actually made the night before. The crockpot mush recipes are actually steel-cut oat recipes from Monica at The Yummy Life. I'm trying them with cracked wheat. I think they'll work just fine. Lunches are simple. So that the Man-of-the-House can take leftovers to work for his lunch, Sunday-Thursday dinners are ones that reheat well. If for some reason there are no leftovers, He'll get salad with cooked chicken added.
I do serve an afterschool snack to my kids each day, which will be
veggies & dip, strawberry yogurt, popcorn, oatmeal cookies & milk, green smoothies, things like that.
At the beginning of every week I make a big green salad and a fruit salad and we eat those with dinner each night.
I subscribed to the Grocery Shrink's Weekly Menu Mailer for about four months, and the biggest thing I learned was to plan food for every meal. Previously, I have only planned dinners and bought the groceries for that plus eggs & milk. I never had enough food in the house and my plans never worked. I learned from Angela to plan lunches and snacks (especially on the weekend when everyone is home all day.)
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If I follow the plan, all my wildest dreams will come true.
My new year's resolution is to follow the schecule, follow the plan.
Part of the plan is to have biweekly menu plans and only shop twice a month for groceries. This will save me time for sure and probably money, as well.
Here is this coming week's plan:
Menu for Week of January 6
Sunday
Breakfast:
Oven Peaches and Cream French Toast
Lunch: Tomato Soup & Melted Cheese
Sandwiches
Dinner:
Chicken Pot Pie
Monday
Breakfast:
CrockPot Eggnog Cranberry Cracked Wheat Mush
Lunch:
Peanut Butter & Honey Sandwiches or Leftovers
Dinner:
Puerco Adobo, Brown Rice, & Cole Slaw
Tuesday
Breakfast:
CrockPot Apple Cinnamon Cracked Wheat Mush
Lunch:
Sandwiches or Leftovers
Dinner:
Taco Soup, Bread & Butter
Wednesday
Breakfast:
Crock Pot Cracked Wheat Mush
Lunch:
Sandwiches or Leftovers
Dinner:
Freezer Raviolli, Alfredo Sauce, Steamed Broccoli
Thursday
Breakfast:
Apricot Ginger Refrigerator Oatmeal
Lunch:
Sandwiches or Leftovers
Dinner: Chicken Enchilada Casserole, Green
Salad & Ranch Dressing
Friday
Breakfast:
CrockPot Banana & Coconut Milk Cracked Wheat Mush
Lunch:
Sandwiches or Leftovers
Dinner:
Quinoa Broccoli Casserole, Garlic Bread
Saturday
Breakfast:
Applesauce Muffins
Lunch:
Pasta Salad
Dinner:
Garlic-Lime Chicken & Baked Sweet Potatoes
You'll notice that Sunday-Friday breakfasts are actually made the night before. The crockpot mush recipes are actually steel-cut oat recipes from Monica at The Yummy Life. I'm trying them with cracked wheat. I think they'll work just fine. Lunches are simple. So that the Man-of-the-House can take leftovers to work for his lunch, Sunday-Thursday dinners are ones that reheat well. If for some reason there are no leftovers, He'll get salad with cooked chicken added.
I do serve an afterschool snack to my kids each day, which will be
veggies & dip, strawberry yogurt, popcorn, oatmeal cookies & milk, green smoothies, things like that.
At the beginning of every week I make a big green salad and a fruit salad and we eat those with dinner each night.
I subscribed to the Grocery Shrink's Weekly Menu Mailer for about four months, and the biggest thing I learned was to plan food for every meal. Previously, I have only planned dinners and bought the groceries for that plus eggs & milk. I never had enough food in the house and my plans never worked. I learned from Angela to plan lunches and snacks (especially on the weekend when everyone is home all day.)
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Our New Family Mission Statement: Side by Side
We have our Family Mission Statement written! Just in time for the New Year!
The Man of the House and I have been reading Steven R Covey's book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families.
We've had some family home evenings where we shared what we were learning with the kiddie pies. They picked right up on the ideas. They are better than I am about changing their behavior.
Habit 2 [Begin with the end in mind] has you create a family mission statement. We had a couple of brainstorming sessions as a family. We let everybody say all their ideas and I wrote them all down. No one was allowed to interrupt or criticize anybody's idea.
We talked about:
What kind of family do we want to be?
What do we want to do together?
What kind of feeling do we want in our home?
What is important to us?
How can we contribute to society as a family?
What is our purpose as a family? These were my favorite answers
Pumpkin- So we won't be by ourselves
Blueberry- so we don't live in boxes when we grow up
Cherry- learn to love each other
Cutie- be nice
We got ideas ranging from "no shouting" and "be nice" to "Dad should give mom chocolate" (thanks, Blueberry) and "pizza on Fridays." I had about 3 pages of notes of things we wanted to do and learn and be as a family.
So how did we take all those ideas and form them into a Family Mission Statement that we could all get behind and be inspired by? For 2 or 3 months, we just let those ideas cook in our minds.
Add in this: At my brother's wedding, his bride's family sang a song I had never heard before, but instantly loved. The song is called Side by Side.
I thought, what a great thought to have as part of your family culture--that you'll do things together and enjoy it.
That sounds really like, duh, as I type it, but I've been going through this phase where I just want to be by myself and do my own thing and everybody just leave me alone and do their own thing. It's not a good attitude for a mom to have and I've been struggling against it, but I keep catching myself back in that attitude. Clearly I need more than just to realize my thoughts aren't right, I need a paradigm shift.
Add in this: One evening, Ben and I had a real heart-to-heart discussion about a few things and I realized what he was asking for was for me to be his friend. He doesn't just want to do the things he likes (example: climb mountains). He wants to do the things he likes WITH ME (climb mountains with me).
Suddenly I knew how to put our family mission statement together in a way that would be inspiring to us (I felt inspired) and would help us keep focused on what is important. I ran the idea past Ben & he liked it. So here it is Ta Da! Our Family Mission Statement. We might edit it a bit more before it goes up on our wall, but essentially we've got it. It is a little bit long, perhaps, but I didn't want to be too general with things like just say "Be Responsible" I felt like it needed to be more concrete for me and for the kids.
The Man of the House and I have been reading Steven R Covey's book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families.
We've had some family home evenings where we shared what we were learning with the kiddie pies. They picked right up on the ideas. They are better than I am about changing their behavior.
Habit 2 [Begin with the end in mind] has you create a family mission statement. We had a couple of brainstorming sessions as a family. We let everybody say all their ideas and I wrote them all down. No one was allowed to interrupt or criticize anybody's idea.
We talked about:
What kind of family do we want to be?
What do we want to do together?
What kind of feeling do we want in our home?
What is important to us?
How can we contribute to society as a family?
What is our purpose as a family? These were my favorite answers
Pumpkin- So we won't be by ourselves
Blueberry- so we don't live in boxes when we grow up
Cherry- learn to love each other
Cutie- be nice
We got ideas ranging from "no shouting" and "be nice" to "Dad should give mom chocolate" (thanks, Blueberry) and "pizza on Fridays." I had about 3 pages of notes of things we wanted to do and learn and be as a family.
So how did we take all those ideas and form them into a Family Mission Statement that we could all get behind and be inspired by? For 2 or 3 months, we just let those ideas cook in our minds.
Add in this: At my brother's wedding, his bride's family sang a song I had never heard before, but instantly loved. The song is called Side by Side.
I thought, what a great thought to have as part of your family culture--that you'll do things together and enjoy it.
That sounds really like, duh, as I type it, but I've been going through this phase where I just want to be by myself and do my own thing and everybody just leave me alone and do their own thing. It's not a good attitude for a mom to have and I've been struggling against it, but I keep catching myself back in that attitude. Clearly I need more than just to realize my thoughts aren't right, I need a paradigm shift.
Add in this: One evening, Ben and I had a real heart-to-heart discussion about a few things and I realized what he was asking for was for me to be his friend. He doesn't just want to do the things he likes (example: climb mountains). He wants to do the things he likes WITH ME (climb mountains with me).
Suddenly I knew how to put our family mission statement together in a way that would be inspiring to us (I felt inspired) and would help us keep focused on what is important. I ran the idea past Ben & he liked it. So here it is Ta Da! Our Family Mission Statement. We might edit it a bit more before it goes up on our wall, but essentially we've got it. It is a little bit long, perhaps, but I didn't want to be too general with things like just say "Be Responsible" I felt like it needed to be more concrete for me and for the kids.
Side By Side
Our family is committed to living the Gospel of Jesus Christ. We will serve the Lord by being missionaries, by serving those around us, and by keeping our covenants. Being a Celestial Family is our goal.
Education is important to us, and we will never stop learning. We value the arts and other cultures. We will honor traditions we have received from our heritage and create new ones. We will discover and develop our talents to share and uplift others.
We love working and playing together, especially outside, keeping our bodies strong and healthy. Everyone will help with chores without complaint. Being self-sufficient is important to us.
In our family we promise to be each other’s best friends. We will do fun things together; we will help and encourage each other. We will always speak kindly and give each other hugs and kisses. We will love each other. We will stay together and encourage each other even if hard things happen.
We will respect each other by being polite and never shouting. We will appreciate each other’s efforts and remember that everyone is trying their best.
We will keep our house a clean and peaceful place so that we want to come home to it. We will keep the Holy Ghost in our home.
We will be thankful in all things acknowledging the Lord’s Hand in our lives. We will show our gratitude by being generous with what we have.
We will walk through life together: side by side.
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Begin at the Beginning? Maybe not....
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| "Begin at the beginning. And when you come to the end, stop." |
The problem with that method is that my first sentence is often in direct contradiction to where I am now. So then when I'm at a party and talking, people hear my first sentence and are like, "Whoa, that's not right."
Then they get this look on their face like, "I'm not happy with what you're saying."
OR WORSE, they interrupt me and say, "You really think that?"
And I'm all, "No! Wait! let me finish!" and I get all flustered.
And sometiems they are all,"I'm done listening," and I don't ever get to explain my story. Or worse, in trying to defend my story, I make some gross generalization that I'm way too smart to actually believe myself and totally cut the ground right out from myself.
I need to start at the end and then go back to the beginning. Important information first.
Maybe I should blog that way too. Important information first and then fill in the back story. Maybe you all read my first sentence and are like, "Leaving now." and never finish it to find out how I learned something.
Come back, I promise I'm smarter now.
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